never leave the house without your confidence.

I woke up on Friday morning and just laughed at myself.  Actually, I've been laughing at myself since then.  I can't believe I did that!  Honestly, kids, I really can't.  Here I was, getting ready to leave the bar with my girlies and I pulled another ridiculous, living in the moment move with a boy who I thought … Continue reading never leave the house without your confidence.

if i lay here, if i just lay here; would you lie with me and just forget the world?

Il dolce far niente: "The sweetness of doing nothing".  That's exactly what I've been instructed to be doing, or shall I say I've been instructed to do nothing.  So after weeks of trying to rest more, I finally followed everyone's orders and took a sick day from work to do nothing but Rest, Rest, and More … Continue reading if i lay here, if i just lay here; would you lie with me and just forget the world?

even a kiss on new year’s eve isn’t ‘just a kiss’.

Some people say that "it's just a kiss", and as you get older you'll mostly hear "it's only sex" and/or "marriage is just a piece of paper".  Do me a favor: Don't believe these things.  If 'a kiss is just a kiss', then why do you sometimes find yourself with weak knees and butterflies in your stomach?  Explain that, cynics!  … Continue reading even a kiss on new year’s eve isn’t ‘just a kiss’.

nice to meet you anyway

Since high school, maybe even middle school, I have followed one simple law: If a guy has a girlfriend, STAY AWAY.  Be friends but absolutely nothing more.  Actually I took it even further and adopted the mindset that if a girl friend or even acquaintance-friend of mine- which was pretty much half of the girls in … Continue reading nice to meet you anyway

unsent love letter mix tape: track 8

The post I wrote on Sunday, October 10th will explain the ideas behind the Unsent Love Letter Mix Tape series, and if it still doesn’t make sense to you, well then, at least it makes sense to me.  The writer.  The blogger.  The girl behind the computer.  Call me what you will but these are … Continue reading unsent love letter mix tape: track 8