yes, yes, yes!

When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible. (Nora Ephron) Sixteen months ago to the day, I found myself on an A*MAY*ZING first date with a guy I met the week before at a country bar on … Continue reading yes, yes, yes!

and i can’t remember life before his name.

No, it was perfect because finally, here he was. The guy who wouldn't let me get away with anything. I always thought of that as the moment you can into focus. Like, "Oh, there you were." Life has been busy for me.  Between internship and grad school, there's been homework and babysitting.  But despite the … Continue reading and i can’t remember life before his name.

if i can love again… and jennifer aniston can love again… so can you…

Every now and then, I'm reminded of a post I wrote about a year and a half ago.  It's a post that many have thanked me for writing because it comforted them to know that someone else had experienced the same loss, pain, and heartbreak as they have.  The post is called, Regrets and mistakes, they're … Continue reading if i can love again… and jennifer aniston can love again… so can you…

lessons one can only learn from love by jillian harris

Just wanted to check in, but unfortunately time isn't at my exposure today.  So instead I'm going to share this piece by Jillian Harris that I read yesterday- You Can Only Control You Well, the first important thing our relationship taught me was that we can never change other people and we are only responsible … Continue reading lessons one can only learn from love by jillian harris

top 10: signs you’re in love (from askmen.com)

Please don't judge me nor question why I found myself typing "how do you know if you're in love" into Google Search today.  Anyways, I found this article from AskMen.com and thought I'd share it with those of you who may have found yourself tempted to type in the same thing.  Just thought I'd save … Continue reading top 10: signs you’re in love (from askmen.com)

what are you so afraid of? why are you feeling scared? what’s the worst that’s gonna happen?

"Sadness be gone, let's be people who deserve to be loved, who are worthy, cause we are worthy." ~ Annie in Happythankyoumoreplease We talk about it.  We think about it. We over think (about) it.  We dream about it. We listen to songs about it; while others sing those songs about it.  Some of us choose to write … Continue reading what are you so afraid of? why are you feeling scared? what’s the worst that’s gonna happen?

“be open and receptive to love.”

Birthday girl, Dina, ironically gave me a gift yesterday in the form of serenity and clarity as she shared this quote: "Be ready for love when it does come. Prepare the field and be ready to nourish love. Be loving, and you will be lovable. Be open and receptive to love."  First let me say … Continue reading “be open and receptive to love.”