When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible. (Nora Ephron) Sixteen months ago to the day, I found myself on an A*MAY*ZING first date with a guy I met the week before at a country bar on … Continue reading yes, yes, yes!
No, it was perfect because finally, here he was. The guy who wouldn't let me get away with anything. I always thought of that as the moment you can into focus. Like, "Oh, there you were." Life has been busy for me. Between internship and grad school, there's been homework and babysitting. But despite the … Continue reading and i can’t remember life before his name.
Every now and then, I'm reminded of a post I wrote about a year and a half ago. It's a post that many have thanked me for writing because it comforted them to know that someone else had experienced the same loss, pain, and heartbreak as they have. The post is called, Regrets and mistakes, they're … Continue reading if i can love again… and jennifer aniston can love again… so can you…
The following post was written for the blog, Peace & Penguins,and tackles the topic of Love & Anxiety- which are two things that I know little and a lot about, respectively. When Alisha asked me to write a guest blog post on Love & Anxiety for Peace & Penguins, I thought that it would be an easy … Continue reading love & anxiety: two things that i know a little and a lot about, respectively.
As I sit in the bedroom of my childhood and adolescent days, I am nearly haunted by the ghosts of crushes past. Gosh, how many boys did I go to bed thinking about in this room? Well, if we could middle school then it may get a little tricky. So scratch that, and let's only … Continue reading and now we meet on a street, and i am blind. i cannot find the heart i gave you. sometimes what we think we really want we don’t. sometimes what we think we love we don’t.
Just wanted to check in, but unfortunately time isn't at my exposure today. So instead I'm going to share this piece by Jillian Harris that I read yesterday- You Can Only Control You Well, the first important thing our relationship taught me was that we can never change other people and we are only responsible … Continue reading lessons one can only learn from love by jillian harris
In order to write this post to the best of my ability, I must admit that I've been watching The Bachelorette this season. Now in mentioning this, it is necessary to remind you that I've stuck with my boycott and haven't watched a single episode of The Bachelor since the Jake-Choosing-Vienna moment shook my guilty … Continue reading if i talk really slowly, if i try real hard to make my point dear, that you have my heart. here i go. i’d tell you but you already know.
Please don't judge me nor question why I found myself typing "how do you know if you're in love" into Google Search today. Anyways, I found this article from AskMen.com and thought I'd share it with those of you who may have found yourself tempted to type in the same thing. Just thought I'd save … Continue reading top 10: signs you’re in love (from askmen.com)
"Sadness be gone, let's be people who deserve to be loved, who are worthy, cause we are worthy." ~ Annie in Happythankyoumoreplease We talk about it. We think about it. We over think (about) it. We dream about it. We listen to songs about it; while others sing those songs about it. Some of us choose to write … Continue reading what are you so afraid of? why are you feeling scared? what’s the worst that’s gonna happen?
Birthday girl, Dina, ironically gave me a gift yesterday in the form of serenity and clarity as she shared this quote: "Be ready for love when it does come. Prepare the field and be ready to nourish love. Be loving, and you will be lovable. Be open and receptive to love." First let me say … Continue reading “be open and receptive to love.”