if i talk really slowly, if i try real hard to make my point dear, that you have my heart. here i go. i’d tell you but you already know.

In order to write this post to the best of my ability, I must admit that I've been watching The Bachelorette this season.  Now in mentioning this, it is necessary to remind you that I've stuck with my boycott and haven't watched a single episode of The Bachelor since the Jake-Choosing-Vienna moment shook my guilty … Continue reading if i talk really slowly, if i try real hard to make my point dear, that you have my heart. here i go. i’d tell you but you already know.

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when you throw your hands up in the air and say, ‘i don’t care anymore’ that’s when things happen.

Everyone has an opinion, and everyone- especially our own mother- feel the need to share their thoughts with you over and over again.  When you're twenty-seven years old like me, you've heard the "If it was me..." and "Remember everything happens for a reason" speeches so many times that you've grown accustomed to tuning them out even before those 'words of wisdom' are … Continue reading when you throw your hands up in the air and say, ‘i don’t care anymore’ that’s when things happen.

take me the way i am.

"You're pretty confident, aren't you?"  I responded to his question as honestly as I possibly could, "No. Not at all."  Isn't that the truth?  I spared him from hearing about my lifelong journey of self-discovery and self-love, not to mention my past struggles with body image, anxiety, and peer pressure (just to name a few).  … Continue reading take me the way i am.

all i have are the choices i make.

Darlene, one of the loves of my life, always knows the right things to say, even if I don't know the right question to ask.  On Thursday afternoon she knew the right quote to share: Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it … Continue reading all i have are the choices i make.